An independent woman does not need someone to realize her own goals and projects, and that sometimes makes the relationship with her partner complicated.
These twenty reasons will help you better understand a self-sufficient girl.
1. I like to fix things by myself
Even if your intentions are good, I will continue to do the things I am convinced of, in my own way.
2. Do not believe that because I am independent I do not need you in my life
Of course I need you, I am confident and focused, and I appreciate someone who appreciates my qualities.
3. It frustrates me to be with extremely dependent people
I know that I may seem callous or cold, but I have the desire to see people help themselves.
4. I prefer to do my earrings, and even exercises alone
Although if you want to join, I will be delighted to have you by my side.
5. If we sleep together, I won't hug you all night or make you breakfast
I am used to my own schedules and to take care of myself, so I will not be cloying and instead, I will appreciate if one morning I can have breakfast with you outside.
6. I pay my own bills and I will feel weird if you constantly insist on paying for everything
Paying my own expenses allows me to feel that I don't owe anyone anything. Therefore, I do not expect them to pay for me or buy me gifts until I know that it is something serious and sincere.
7. I need time alone
A little every day and a little more than the others. This does not mean that I have lost interest in you.
8. I attend events on my own, no problem
I don't need a partner to feel comfortable doing these things. I have friends that I meet and I can enjoy without a man accompanying me.
9. I can solve my own problems
I'm not waiting for you to fix them. I can find solutions for myself.
10. I don't care if you don't call me or send me a message every minute
I don't really like it, and I won't contact you if I'm busy. I also don't like feeling overwhelmed by excessive attention.
11. If we go to a party, you don't need to take care of me all the time
I enjoy meeting people just like talking with my acquaintances. But don't forget about me completely, because you will still be my favorite person in the place.
12. I will not ask you for money
If one day I did, I would feel weird and uncomfortable until I paid you.
13. I work because I have a career
I am not waiting for you to keep me, I have ambitions and I am proud of my work. So don't expect me to leave it for you.
14. I would like to get married, if I find the right person
I am perfectly capable of taking care of myself. If I choose to be in a relationship, it's because I like it, not because I can't live without you.
15. I want more than a romantic partner
I would like to share my life with someone who can be a personal trainer, masseuse and the cleaning person, if you have one of these qualities I will love you a little more.
16. I can be stubborn and firm about handling certain things
Sorry if I react in this way, but I don't like you to give me advice if I don't ask you, even if you already lived something similar and your intentions are good.
17. I will be fine if you want to go out with your friends
Sometimes I will also want to catch up with my own friends or take advantage of the night doing something that I especially enjoy.
18. I really like to receive hugs and to express to me that you love me
If you flatter me and you are affectionate to me, I will not shrug. Independence will never be a limitation to enjoy feeling loved.