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Reasons to let go of who is no longer important in your life

febrero 15, 2020
8 Razones para DEJAR ir a quien ya no juega un papel importante en tu vida

There comes a point in the life of each person where they must get away from certain people.

When the relationship is recent everything seems sweet and perfect, but as time goes by they really get to know each other and it may happen that they are so comfortable with each other, that the relationship no longer contributes anything to your life or that it can even reach be harmful

If this is not enough to know whether or not to let someone in your life go, here are some reasons to help you decide:

1. When things are no longer the same

Hache and babi in a scene from the movie I want you

People simply grow up, which is perfectly normal. You realize that you are looking for different things, they no longer share the same interests, they no longer understand each other, and they can no longer connect.

Sometimes it's just a matter of accepting that it takes time to let go, instead of holding on to something that just won't come back. That was lost a long time ago, or maybe, never really was.

2. When he doesn't believe in you

Woman walking away in the city while the sun sets between buildings

If you believe that the other part of your relationship is not providing support, then analyze what he or she is giving you. You deserve someone who will be there to motivate you along your goals, and believe in you even more than you can believe in yourself.

3. When things are not clear

Tom and Summer on 500-day scene with her at the cinema

Being in a relationship is difficult when you don't know what you mean to the other, or if you're worthless at all. If the other does not make you feel as if you care, reflect on why you are still there.

4. When the relationship hurts you

movie scene the butterfly effect

If the relationship is making you unhappy, it's time to say goodbye to the other person. You should not allow yourself to feel trapped, much less get used to being treated so much that you don't deserve.

If someone is making you feel bad or competes with you, eliminate that negativity from your life as soon as possible. Respect yourself enough to get away from who hurts you.

5. When they can't agree

Daily movie scene of a passion

It is difficult for a relationship to work if the two people cannot accept the different views that each one has. If all you and he or she can agree on is that neither can reach an agreement, then it is time to move away.

6. When only you fight to make it work

Wedding couple hugging in bed

If your relationship makes you feel as if only you are striving, investing time and love, it is time to reflect on whether it is really worth it. When someone really loves you, they care about you, what you want and need.

7. When trust has been lost

Reasons to let a person go (2)

If you know in your heart that you can no longer trust a person, then you have to start wondering why it is in your life. Trust and loyalty are the basis for any relationship.

8. When it doesn't give you what you are looking for and need

Couple in bed while the girl looks out the window

Ask yourself if you can live without that relationship, or if it really is something you want and deserve. Sometimes, there is the idea that we can be "too demanding" with what we want from others, but on the other hand: why should you settle for something less than happiness?