If you are looking for a partner it is more than likely that you have attended several appointments and even that you are meeting new and interesting people. If you are realistic, almost all people who get into a dating application or who want to meet new people, often look for sexual experiences. Although not always the case, It is always good to know what are the clear signs that this date only wants sex with you.
That a person wants sex on a date does not mean that he is a bad person, in fact, they are normal people. It is normal for someone to want sex, but it is not natural that he wants to enter into a committed relationship with someone just to get it. So if that person only wants sex does not mean that he has a real connection with you.
Signs that he only wants sex with you
Whether or not you have sex with your date if he or she wants to have it, is only your decision. But remember that you never have to do anything against your will. You should look at the clear boundaries to avoid misunderstandings.
He always says he wants to watch a movie or be at home
Whenever you try to make plans, that date only asks you to be home alone watching a movie. Going to watch a movie and watch a movie are very different in terms of what the ultimate goal is. If it's at the movies, nothing happens since you will wait until you feel comfortable until you want to have sex.
If you only want sex, You will definitely prefer to see something at home and you won't want to go to the movies. So, if he keeps suggesting a movie every time you try to plan something, you know exactly what he wants.
He wants you to drink alcohol with him / her
Everyone knows that alcohol is a potent aphrodisiac. It's no secret, so if he brazenly wants you to drink, there's a good chance he'll expect you to get frisky. If he invites you to have a drink at home and you wonder if he will expect sex, it is a resounding YES.
He wants to be with you alone
He definitely won't want a third person with you. If you bring a friend on the first date, he might agree, but I would prefer that it was only you two because then there is a greater chance of having sex. If he is very insistent that it is only you two, it is a good sign that he does not want to spend the whole night talking.
You may not mind meeting any of your friends, which means that you could see yourself as someone who is temporary in your life. It is understandable that he prefers to go out alone with you, but if he cancels when you mention having brought a friend, It means that he is not willing to risk going out with you and not having sex.
Often makes sexual jokes
If he mentions sex often, then he is telling you something. He has one thing in mind every time he talks to you. Now, some guys just make a lot of jokes anyway, and maybe he thinks sexual jokes are funny or something, but if he constantly has sexual jokes, then he has it in mind a lot.
It's as simple as that. And if he directs it towards you, he wants sex. You shouldn't reject him for that, but at least you know what kind of person he is based on his sense of humor. If he has a dirty mind, having casual sex is probably normal for him. If you don't like casual sex, you should inform him semi-directly. He probably won't believe you if you tell him directly: "I'm not going to have sex with you." In fact, he will assume that you are considering having sex with him if you say that, and that if he plays his cards well, you will. "I am conservative when it comes to relationships," is a better way to put it.